Caught— as though sin were only real when it is seen.
They stand her in the center, not to restore her, but to expose her.
And Christ stoops.
He writes in the dust— as if to remind them that all accusations are written on something that can be blown away.
“Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.”
And suddenly, those who came to catch are themselves caught.
Not by Christ’s anger— but by His truth.
And one by one, they leave.
Until only two remain:
the one who was caught, and the One who catches without condemning.
In outlining these reflections, I thank all those who are working towards the goals delineated above, and I cordially bless all those who work for the common good through the media.
In this season of Communion—the Centennial pillar for March, am I allowing myself to be caught not in self-promotion or passive consumption of media, but in gratitude and responsibility—recognizing and supporting those who labor for the common good, and asking how I, too, might use my voice to build up the Body of Christ rather than simply observe it?
Caught not merely in sin, but in the gaze of a God who refuses to let sin have the final word.
4. Oratio
Lord Jesus,
You see me— not only when I am at my best, but precisely when I am most hidden.
I confess that I prefer darkness to disguise my weakness.
I fear being caught more than I fear being changed.
But You do not expose me to shame— You invite me to freedom.
Give me the courage to stand before You without pretense.
When I am tempted to hide, call me forth.
When I am caught in sin, do not let me escape Your mercy.
And having received it, grant me the strength to sin no more.
Amen.
5. Actio — In Light of Laudato Si’ and Synodality
Since the market tends to promote extreme consumerism in an effort to sell its products, people can easily get caught up in a whirlwind of needless buying and spending. Compulsive consumerism is one example of how the techno-economic paradigm affects individuals.
True human dignity is upheld not through exposure or judgment, but through accompaniment, mercy, and responsibility for one another.
Today, I will resist the urge to “catch” others in their faults.
Instead:
I will create space for honesty rather than shame.
I will acknowledge my own weaknesses before pointing out another’s.
I will walk synodally—recognizing that we are all in need of mercy, not spectacle.
For communion is not built by catching one another, but by carrying one another.
6. Song Pairing 🎵
🎶 “Cheeseburger in Paradise” – Jimmy Buffett🎵
A lighthearted ode to indulgence— and a reminder of how easily pleasure can become excuse. The danger is not the cheeseburger— but the story I tell myself while eating it.
7. Movie Pairing 🎬
🎬Movie: “Catch Me If You Can” (2002)
A tale of deception and pursuit— revealing that the deeper longing is not merely to avoid being caught, but to be known and brought home. For even the best disguises cannot satisfy the heart.
If starting a conversation at church feels like a leap of faith…you’re not alone. 🙏 You know the moment — you lock eyes with someone after church, and suddenly you’re spiritually obligated to say something. 👀 Panic sets in, and now you’re deeply invested in the nearest exit sign. “What do I say?” “Is this weird?” “Do I abort mission?” 😬 This week on The Introverted Apostle, we’re diving into the art of starting conversations without overthinking yourself into silence…moving past the awkward and into authentic connection, one small, brave step at a time. And yes…we’re laughing our way through it, because let’s be honest — we’ve all been there. 😅
Just listened to the latest episode of Spiritual Arms: Five Minutes for the Battle. Christianity begins with a wonderful paradox: the people most ready to approach God are the ones most aware they need mercy. Like the leper who simply said, “Lord, if you will, you can make me clean.” Josh reminds us that Jesus went to the Cross precisely for moments like that. In Confession, we bring Him our wounds, receive mercy, and then go back into the world carrying the love we did not deserve but were freely given. Five minutes very well spent.
Move over, celebrity sightings…this is a Sacred Heart sighting! ❤️ Duane and Theresa are popping up in parishes everywhere, helping families put Christ at the heart of their homes and spreading devotion that’s anything but half-hearted. But wherever they go, they’re on fire for the Sacred Heart of Jesus. 🔥 In this episode, Duane and Theresa talk First Fridays, 12 powerful promises, and why enthroning your home might be the best “heart upgrade” you’ll ever make. Warning: Sacred Heart enthusiasm may be contagious. ❤️🔥
My Story
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Memorial in the Grotto of St. Mary’s Cathedral. The inscription says: “In memory of the death of innocence of the victims of clergy sexual abuse. When innocence dies…a life stops. It is essential that we never forget.“
I was one of “the few” Bishop Zurek spoke of in this letter. He first posted it in August of 2019, and in response to my, “calling out all the more“, he kept reposting it atop the diocesan news page until December 11, 2019. There it remains to this day.
Fr. Ed Graff, brought here from Philadelphia by Bishop Matthiesen, was arrested in 2002 for sexually assaulting a minor and died later that year in jail. Despite the harm linked to his ministry, he was buried in an honored section of Llano Cemetery among our pioneering clergy — a decision that continues to wound survivors and raise hard questions for our diocese.
A tribute to Bishop Matthiesen—now a complex symbol in our diocesan history, erected by former priest John Salazar, whose later abuse conviction reminds us how painful chapters of the Church’s past must be faced honestly as we seek healing and communion.
Bishop Matthiesen, who rode the white horse of public activism even as he brought abusive priests into our diocese such as John Salazar—wounds that still mark us today. I spoke with him often, pleading with him to reconsider his “no regrets” about bringing those priests here…
Bishop Zurek, who told the Diocese of Amarillo he had “no facts” about the Philadelphia report even as Amarillo’s connection to that tragedy was headline news. When I continued to speak out, as Bishop Yanta had once urged me to do, he later wrote that I was not among the faithful and loyal disciples whom the Lord Jesus desires.
While we recognize your thoughtful suggestion for a renewed dialogue on Bishop Matthiesen, the present circumstances do not present an opportunity for it. I think it would foster division not dialogue. We remain confident in God’s providence and hopeful for what the future may bring.